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Couples therapy

Every time you win an argument with your partner then you loose in the relationship.

Most likely you have tried to win an argument with your partner by saying hurtful things. You know that it hurts your partner but in that moment you could not help it. You just had to do it. Sometimes you win and sometimes your partner wins. Imagine your relationship is a porcelain plate. Every time you hurt each other then the porcelain gets a little broken. After a while you can no longer serve a meal on this plate.

Forgiveness is not the same as not being upset. Neither is it the same as forgetting.

It is a misconception to believe that forgiveness removes guilt. Times does not go backwards and the done can not be undone. In a relationship the infidelity can not be undone, the harsh things said during an argument cannot be unsaid.

When you forgive it is okay to still be upset about what has happened. It is okay to say that you can feel that you are still too angry and hurt about what the other person did and at the same time you will make an effort to ensure that the corporation between you is good and aiming towards a healthy growth of your relationship.

This way you can admit that you are still upset and at the same time you show that you believe in a future for your relationship. Being angry does not have to be a threat towards the relationship 

Taking the next step

If you are in a relationship where you are arguing a lot or you find it difficult communicate with your partner, then deciding to invest in couples therapy is the first step towards finding a solution that works for both of you. 

I offer a safe space where both parties are listened to, respected, and met with empathy.

For inspiration you can read the blog post: How deep is your love?

Couples therapy is for everyone no matter race, ethnicity, gender, sexual orientation, age or religious beliefs.